Sunday, March 20, 2011


  Betraying (causes and effects)


Cheating means betraying a friend or wife or any relatives. Every problem has  causes and results. Unfortunately a survey shows recently in the UAE both locals and expatriate couples have cheated on their partners.700 people participated in this survey; 60% of the women who participated in the survey have cheated on their partners ; on the other hand 19% of men betrayed their women.


Dr. Saad said that the main cause of it is weak religious belief  in people behaving this way .While Dr.AlArifai said that movies and drama portray emotional cheating as a simple act rather than exposing it as a disgraceful act.

These are some causes which lead to many negative results. One of the biggest results is divorce. Most divorce cases in Arab countries are a result of emotional cheating .However these cases are hard to be proved in the Arab countries because of the Islamic religion which forces you to have 4 witnesses to state they have seen the act of unfaithfulness with their own eyes. And the second fact is that the confidence between the partners will be finished and there will be no truth in the relationship.

Finally, I would like to say that I hope we can solve this problem easily because it will destroy our society and it can enter our houses and even destroy them.

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Aldanhani,Khalid “Empty Rooms “ . 999 Society and Security 480 (2010 ) : 22-25)
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